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A Heart Touching Poetry, Truly Awesome…. December 5, 2009

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Some times, there are some things which are not explainable by words. Even when one tries really hard enough to explain through wording, all those efforts just fail. If you are thinking that what can be such emotion which is not explainable by words than the answer of that is pain. Out of all, only pain is that such emotion which even words can’t describe properly. And when that pain is given to one by that person whom he loved more than his own self than it becomes even more harder to tell someone what’s the reason of those tears which at times come in the eyes. Its not possible to explain in any words that why one feels alone even when the whole world is there? Its not possible to express that pain caused by those broken pieces of heart which pierce into the soul all the time reminding that this is the punishment of trusting, loving , caring for some one for whom love was not much than a wardrobe which one wears for some time and after that, just throws away in a corner. Only that person can truly understand this who has tasted the same poison. Those who cause this pain and these tears to others, for them its nothing and they never can understand even what it feels like to hide in the corner of your room and cry when you see that someone who is having wounds, not on his body but on his soul, how would you see those hidden pains? How you would look beyond what’s visible? The answer of this lies in those eyes which despite being quite will reveal it all. Look in those eyes who would tell you that when pains go beyond the limits of tolerance, how would one feel? Don’t get fooled by the smile of someone. Remember, smile can be fade but eyes never tell a lie, even when you want them to do so!
 
I got the following lines in an email. I am not sure who wrote these lines but I must say that whosoever did it, has done it in just an awesome manner! What that heart feels who got crushed under the feet of that person whom it was keeping safe inside of it,  is explained just so very beautifully here. These are in Hindi and I have attempted to explain the meaning in English as well. Have a read, first in Hindi,

Na jaane dhoondtey ho Kya meri viraan aankhon Mein,
Chupa rakhe Hum ne to kayi tufaan aankhon Mein!
 
Kahan who shokhiyan pehlay Si,ab kuch bhi nahin baaqi,
Chale aaye ho tum Kya khojne in be-jaan aankhon mein!
 
Kisi ka haath lekar haath mein jab tum mile hum se,
To kaise toot ke bikhra tha mera mann aankhon mein!
 
Na samjho chup hain to tum se koi shikwa nahi baaqi,
Hum apne dard Ki nahi rakhte koi pehchaan aankhon mein!
 
Mile the baad muddat k humein tum ajnabi ban Kar,
To kaise dard na Uthte meri hairaan aankhon mein!
 
Nahi ab phir se Koi raafta rakhne se kuch haasil,
Ke ab dafna diye hum ne sabhi armaan in aankhon Mein!
 
And here is the translation in English for the same,

Not sure what you are looking for in my lonely eyes,
There are just so many storms hidden beneath these eyes!
 
There is no innocence left in these eyes anymore,there is nothing else left,
What you have come to look for in these lifeless eyes!
 
When holding hands of someone else you met me,
You don’t know how did my heart crushed into pieces beneath these eyes!
 
Don’t think that if I am silent, there are no grudges for you,
No signs of my pain I keep anymore in these eyes!
 
When even after so long, you met me like a complete stranger,
Than how come pain won’t come in my surprised eyes!
 
There is no benefit of keeping anything now,
As I have just buried all of my wishes beneath these eyes!
 
I don’t know what else I should add to above said? I guess this world is now full of those for whom, their own self matters the most than anyone else, including those as well who love them, care for them! May be that’s why people don’t really look beyond what they think is right for them, even when it may mean to break someone’s heart like breaking a cup of tea. May be some things like a better career, study in abroad really do matter than those stupid and idiotic things like emotions, feelings and love! Anyways, all I know is that if there are many who don’t even think for a moment before leaving their beloved ones for what their own wishes and benefits, there are still few who have left the whole world for that one person whom they loved truly, madly and deeply. That’s another fact altogether that out of those very few, there are again some very very selective lucky ones who got someone who understood this gesture of them. For the rest of the people, tears, pains and cries become their soul mates for the eternity and that’s what is the fortune of most who does the crime of being in love!

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1. bb - December 7, 2009

hm, leaving someone who loves you wouldnt be wrong at all times, it depends on the reason behind.

sometimes we should choose an option, leave to find a happiness in yourself or stay but feel empty inside ?

Aman Sharma - December 8, 2009

leaving someone who loves you wouldnt be wrong at all times, it depends on the reason behind.

Yes I do agree but the reason should not be any selfish reason that involves some thing materialistic, only for the person who is leaving his beloved. I do understand that at times, one has to leave because of some unavoiable circumstances and that’s okay. But if one leaves some one for anything purely selfish, there can’t be any justification for proving it as a right move. And if one has to leave someone unwilligly, it must be made sure that the relation which both have carried, its essense should be maintained by some way for sure.

sometimes we should choose an option, leave to find a happiness in yourself or stay but feel empty inside ?
Being in love never can make some one feel empty. This is the most contended feeling that in this entire world, there is someone who is only for you and for him/her, only you are the world. I don’t think that if one is truly in love, the feeling of emptiness can ever strike. And if one thinks that leaving someone is going to bring him/her happiness when both are truly in love with each other( or atleast say the same) , than there is something wrong some where. There are lot of times when we “think” we are in love when actually we are not!

2. bb - December 8, 2009

bravo, as always a lovely reply. deep and silently go straight to the heart.

” And if one thinks that leaving someone is going to bring him/her happiness when both are truly in love with each other( or atleast say the same) , than there is something wrong some where.”
– can we content destiny as one of ‘something wrong some where’ ? well who’s to blame then ? letting go is also a part of loving. it has a different shape of love, but still part of it.
– say how to measure the definition ‘in love’ mean ? some love are being created not meant to last. they just take a place inside your heart and make you smarter for the next time. not blaming the wrong feeling-as if thinking that we are in love which we are not, or even put destiny’s reason for it-can we argue with it after all ?

Aman Sharma - December 8, 2009

can we content destiny as one of ’something wrong some where’ ? well who’s to blame then ? letting go is also a part of loving. it has a different shape of love, but still part of it.
Destiny surely can be one of the factors but again, it depends what’s the intensity of the relation. If there is a destiny like Heer Ranjha(a historical couple of Punjabi culture) than it can be called the misery of destiny. In that case, only the destiny is reason or the answer for “something wrong some where”. But if one is leaving her love because she wants to have a better career and being with her beloved is coming underway( coming from a personal experience) than it can’t be categorized as destiny’s fault.

Letting go takes a lot of guts. The one who lets go is the one who is truly in love. But the one who is “willing to go” is not the one who is truly in love. It can never happen that someone would just wake up fine day and would leave his beloved. Those who do this, have made up their minds already long back. I always believe, if one is in love with someone and holds someone’s hand, he/she should let go his/her head but not that hand. Sadly, this is not what most people believe into and if going or leaving one’s love doesn’t mean anything for the person, it just means that there was no love because when one is in love, the very idea of leaving your love doesn’t come, even when he/she is the worst person of this world!That’s what love is, that’s what love should be IMO!

ay how to measure the definition ‘in love’ mean ?
Did you read my blog post of “are you in love”? I would suggest to read it. That would give the answer of this. A lot of times, we are not in love but just have a thinking/feeling of it! For example, we like someone’s talks, someone’s smile, someone’s attitude, thats not love. That’s attraction! Read the post, I have put these things there. Here is the link to it,
https://amansharma.wordpress.com/2006/05/02/are-you-in-love/

some love are being created not meant to last. they just take a place inside your heart and make you smarter for the next time. not blaming the wrong feeling-as if thinking that we are in love which we are not, or even put destiny’s reason for it-can we argue with it after all

I am not sure what to say. Yes, that’s true. Some times, there is just no one to blame but yourself for all the tears, cries and pains. I am not sure that the experience of being in love makes one smarter as love is from heart which normally makes one do silly things! So not sure that being in love is going to make anyone smart. Yes a broken heart can make one alike a stone some times! To be honest, I am not sure what to say for this. Just will say this,some pains are written in one’s fate and there is no way one can skip away from them! And when they are given from none other than from that person whom one loves, the intensity becomes much more high!

3. bb - December 8, 2009

many thanks for a wonderful reply 🙂

Aman Sharma - December 8, 2009

Hey don’t need to say thanks alright 🙂 .

You didn’t reply back, does what I said makes some sense or not?

4. bb - December 8, 2009

hm, i dont know whether we have the same measurement for the definition of ‘make some senses or not’. well, i also have no answer for your question. opinion is something that may result in vary, so be it.

just see, the smart, comprehensive yet so heartful explanation from your side. so bold on making decision who’s the one that trully in love : the letting go one or the one who willing to let go.

i, myself cant be so bold like this. letting go or willing to go, both parties will feel suffered. both also need courage to take this step. it’s just the matter of time who will take the decision first. love is love. it will never changed. if you cant go further but cant take decision too, what will it be? you wouldnt want to be stucked in a moment, fell too deep and even felt so hard to let go, just because there’s none who wanna be ‘willing to go’ part.

i always believe that woman on handling a problem is using 9 hearts and 1 brain otherwise man is using 9 brains and 1 heart (this might be my own personal opinion), we both can see the difference between ur explanation and mine.

no need to bother whether it’s ur or mine that is make sense. but i can see so clearly that love somehow left a deep cut in each explanation of urs and mine, and be it.

can i say thanks now ? 🙂

Aman Sharma - December 8, 2009

opinion is something that may result in vary, so be it.
I second to it!

i, myself cant be so bold like this. letting go or willing to go, both parties will feel suffered. both also need courage to take this step. it’s just the matter of time who will take the decision first. love is love. it will never changed. if you cant go further but cant take decision too, what will it be? you wouldnt want to be stucked in a moment, fell too deep and even felt so hard to let go, just because there’s none who wanna be ‘willing to go’ part.

I agree that both the parties would and do suffer. But this would happen only when both are sharing the same intensity of love. My comment on “willing to go” was for that kind of persons who leave their loved one not because there is some problem like destiny or something but for some materialistic reasons or just because they think that its now time to “grab someone else”. Those never regret leaving their loved ones in pool of tears, infact they don’t even bother! For that kind of persons, I mentioned that they don’t decide to leave their beloved in a single day but they have decided it with cold mind and heart quite long back. And for them, it doesn’t matter what and how sever damage this will do that person who would be left!

If there is a situation that one can’t be with some one for some genuine reasons than its better to leave. There is no point of being in a relation which is not giving happiness. In that kind of situation, there is no point of waiting for anything. I know the hard feeling of letting go. But as I said, when both are in love and truly in love, the very idea of being away never comes up. If both are true to their relation, they would(should) work upon to resolve the things/issues. One must not try to find the best guy/gal of this world btu one should try to love that person they way he/she is.

A woman is always better in handling things Blommer. And this is the same when she is going to mess up things! I hope you got my point!

can see so clearly that love somehow left a deep cut in each explanation of urs and mine
😉

can i say thanks now ?

Hmm, no 😉 .

5. bb - December 10, 2009

finally i found one similarity between us 🙂
” opinion is something that may result in vary, so be it.
I second to it! ”

ideally, love suppossed to keep you young and frisky; make you feel complete; accept the way how he/she really is; faithful and lasts till the end. in times, changes in whatsoever reasons that might appeared in a loving process, can’t always be classified into wrong or right, make sense or doesnt make sense, true or false.

people with some materialistic reasons or a thought of “it’s now time to “grab someone else”, as per you say, can we grant that they dont feel any regret or dont even bother ? selfish or unselfish reasons, for who and which side it is ? different head and different heart can caused different reasons and also actions.

hm yes, woman might mess up things better but not to worry, we can fix and handle things better too, as per you said. so yes, i get ur point.

cheers. 😀

Aman Sharma - December 10, 2009

finally i found one similarity between us 🙂
” opinion is something that may result in vary, so be it.
I second to it! ”

Haha I am in agreement to all what you said baba. I just was mentioning why I said what I said 🙂 .

ideally, love suppossed to keep you young and frisky; make you feel complete; accept the way how he/she really is; faithful and lasts till the end. in times, changes in whatsoever reasons that might appeared in a loving process, can’t always be classified into wrong or right, make sense or doesnt make sense, true or false.

Agreed and well said! About the changes, if the underlying love and its essence and respect is maintained, no harm in changes as well. But if the changes like “changing a person” is done by some one just because “its too much time with one” or “some thing better is available on the cost of this person” than its not correct IMHO. But I did understand all what you said and its all very correct!

people with some materialistic reasons or a thought of “it’s now time to “grab someone else”, as per you say, can we grant that they dont feel any regret or dont even bother ? selfish or unselfish reasons, for who and which side it is ?

I shall speak about this as a person who saw it happening. Its possible to see that some one is leaving you for what reasons. The talks, those eyes will tell it all. Selfish reasons never bring any regrets.

different head and different heart can caused different reasons and also actions.
Again agreed!

woman might mess up things better but not to worry, we can fix and handle things better too, as per you said. so yes, i get ur point.

🙂

Cheers
Aman….

6. bb - December 10, 2009

whew, am so amazed with your fast respond, only 4 minutes. i kept wallowing around to make this reply for this whole day. not fair. 😦
hahaha.

ok then, i guess i should learn some more from a man who really knows about woman at its best and worst.

cheers. 😀

Aman Sharma - December 10, 2009

whew, am so amazed with your fast respond, only 4 minutes. i kept wallowing around to make this reply for this whole day. not fair.
Haha that’s me 🙂 .

i guess i should learn some more from a man who really knows about woman at its best and worst.
Can’t say “really” but yes, have seen the life very closely and have learned few bits ( if not much) for sure in this process. And this learning is still going on!

7. Amardeep Sidhu - December 12, 2009

The poetry was so nice but even nicer is the discussion. Too many things there. I just went through it but sort of quickly.

Well, Love is indeed a complicated thing and it makes things complicated too 😉

Talking about the truthfulness and purity of Love i think, it destroys everything then. Pure love probably doesnt involve anything materialistic. Heer-Ranjha, Sohni-Mahiwal, Sassi-Pannu and all others were the sould who were in pure love and their end; it was tragic. As they say that the pure love (in fact right now i am thinking why we shud call it pure love…just LOVE should mean it); it starts with ishq-majaji (love between humans) and reaches ishq-haqeeqi (loving God).

If we talk about today’s relationships; what would a true and successful relation mean ? They get married ! But again that involves so many lies, hidden incidents and so on. If some relation happens to be going on due to some reasons or circumstances, it cant be called pure love. To be frank, i dont think it can even happen these days. We all are stuck in materialistic things and make one or another mistake that leads to ending of the relationship. In all the so called LOVE marriages i have seen till date, i think none of them was PURE LOVE marriage. Isn’t it a terrible thing ? [BTW the reason why did i use “SO CALLED LOVE marriage” is that it actually is not that LOVE so we should use some terminology like “so called love marriages” or “non-arranged marriages”.

When really in true love, the “I” in us dies and its like 2 bodies and 1 soul. But that hardly happens these days. Everybody is hiding something from his partner. That is not love 😦

In the end, sorry for the mess-up. I am sure i have made it crap by discussing things like changing directions of wind !

Aman Sharma - December 13, 2009

Sidhu,

Yes, I do agree that the discussion went on really well and as we discussed last night, the credit for it goes to Blommer.

Love is indeed a complicated thing and it makes things complicated too
Exactly! And most of those think that they are in love, don’t realize this fact. But with whatever it brings, its the only emotion which makes us, the living human beings, human beings!

Talking about the truthfulness and purity of Love i think, it destroys everything then. Pure love probably doesnt involve anything materialistic. Heer-Ranjha, Sohni-Mahiwal, Sassi-Pannu and all others were the sould who were in pure love and their end; it was tragic. As they say that the pure love (in fact right now i am thinking why we shud call it pure love…just LOVE should mean it); it starts with ishq-majaji (love between humans) and reaches ishq-haqeeqi (loving God).
You hit the nail right on the head! If we need to distill that our love is pure or impure, it rather means that we are still in doubts and in love, there are never doubts! Its the faith only on which someone can pick up a raw vessel of mud and thinks she can cross the river, despite knowing that it would bring only death as a result! That must be the intensity of love, that should be the level up till which one must love his/her beloved! But unfortunately, now a days, for people, materialistic things matter way more than “a feeling”. As I said in my newest post, it takes a lot to be in love and most of the times, one fails to pass even the first exam of it too!

If we talk about today’s relationships; what would a true and successful relation mean ? They get married ! But again that involves so many lies, hidden incidents and so on. If some relation happens to be going on due to some reasons or circumstances, it cant be called pure love. To be frank, i dont think it can even happen these days. We all are stuck in materialistic things and make one or another mistake that leads to ending of the relationship. In all the so called LOVE marriages i have seen till date, i think none of them was PURE LOVE marriage. Isn’t it a terrible thing ? [BTW the reason why did i use “SO CALLED LOVE marriage” is that it actually is not that LOVE so we should use some terminology like “so called love marriages” or “non-arranged marriages”.

When really in true love, the “I” in us dies and its like 2 bodies and 1 soul. But that hardly happens these days. Everybody is hiding something from his partner. That is not love
Some how, guys and gals of our times(need to be mentioned that you and me are not two old crazy people 😉 ) , they tend to give more importance for “I” rather than “we”! You know it that I have seen it happening personally! Slowly, the definitions are changing I guess and that certainly is not good!

In the end, sorry for the mess-up. I am sure i have made it crap by discussing things like changing directions of wind !

Always an honor to find you here 22 🙂 . And I shall mention thanks to Blommer also for being a part of this discussion. It takes a lot of wisdom to think deep about something alike love and not many have that wisdom IMO!

8. bb - December 14, 2009

the credit goes to me ? *blushing mode on*. flattered a lot to read this. just a commentator that wallowing around the blog.

hail to the seniors (which are not two old crazy poeple :)), define a love in a real good way. one got a deep cut frm love which apparently implied in most of the written scenes (finally found it in ur older post)and another one found that love is a complicated thing and separate love into several terms. so very interesting thoughts.

remind myself that learning about love will take a lifetime to do. love as in a part of life is complicated, well life is not easy after all. some just try to runaway and hide frm it, some others just choose to stay. boundaries for love sometimes come from ourselves as we are the one who makes them all . genuine reasons or not genuine reasons, possible or impossible, reality or fantasy, these are some excuses that human creates. never know what destiny would bring, stop playing God and live life and love to its fullest.

huff, what a tough morning. but what can be more interesting than less sleeping time, lack of coffees in the morning, a good discussion with 2 older but not crazy men, and a 50 cents song tittled 21 questions ? hm, must be an interesting monday morning for me.

cheers and hope we all have a nice day today. 🙂

Aman Sharma - December 14, 2009

Of course it goes to you since only when you posted the comment, that initiated the discussion. 🙂

SENIORS! OH MY GOSH!

Just for the record, we are REALLY not two old crazy guys 😀 . Sidhu, your comment is must needed here 😉 .

Thanks for the kind words 🙂 . Sidhu’s wisdom is something which I admire all the time, I mean it! I believe, to understand the things he says, one must look way beyond what’s visible. About me, well, nothing much to say 🙂 .

remind myself that learning about love will take a lifetime to do. love as in a part of life is complicated, well life is not easy after all. some just try to runaway and hide frm it, some others just choose to stay. boundaries for love sometimes come from ourselves as we are the one who makes them all . genuine reasons or not genuine reasons, possible or impossible, reality or fantasy, these are some excuses that human creates. never know what destiny would bring, stop playing God and live life and love to its fullest.

Awesome! Very very well said!

huff, what a tough morning. but what can be more interesting than less sleeping time, lack of coffees in the morning, a good discussion with 2 older but not crazy men, and a 50 cents song tittled 21 questions ? hm, must be an interesting monday morning for me.

Hey, please drop the “older” here , we are really NOT old 🙂 . Just kidding. Your morning sounds the same quite a lot similar to mine as well. Landed here in Banglore late night, no sleep, now having tea with Nusrat singing Tumhen Dillaggi bhool jaani padegi and waiting to get my cab. The only difference is that its going to be a real tough day for me 😦 .

Have a nice day and again, much thanks for the kind words and for a very nice discussion!

9. blommer22 - December 15, 2009

hm, never thought that ‘senior and old’ words can put so much troubles for some people.

“Age is a question of mind over matter. If you dont mind, it doesn’t matter” – Satchel Paige

okie, then let’s just dropped it. 😀

Aman Sharma - December 15, 2009

HAHAHA no no baba. You know , OLD IS GOLD 😛 !

Just was in a mood to have some fun that’s why mentioned it so many times! 🙂

Aman….

10. blommer22 - December 16, 2009

may i know what’s the meaning of baba?

2 times u mentioned this in ur reply. he he.

Aman Sharma - December 16, 2009

Hmm meaning of baba is it? Well, Its a hindi word. Not sure that you know about it or not but in Hindi language, its common to mention it 🙂 . I have no idea what is it called in English 🙂 .

11. blommer22 - December 16, 2009

hmm, since i dont understand the meaning of baba and you’re the one who said it ( 2 times ), then kindly find an idea how to explain it in English.

Be responsible for my curiosity. Curiosity kills…!!

LOL, cheers! 😀

Aman Sharma - December 16, 2009

Let me save you from being killed then 🙂 .

Okay, you know the meaning of word Baby right? Baba is the male version of it 🙂 . I hope this should be good enough. There is no word in English officially AFAIK but in Hindi, it is used pretty often for males and in general as well, irrespective of the gender 🙂 .

Sounds like I actually created a definition for the word 🙂 .

12. blommer22 - December 16, 2009

Ah well, at last saved from killing myself. Well noted now.

Thanks much for the help. You seemed so happy today even in a hectic situation and not so well feeling. I can see that from how many smiling icon ( 😀 ) that u used above.

Cheers. 🙂

Aman Sharma - December 16, 2009

Hmmm I wrote a poem long time and its there on my blog as well. I had used a line there, Now I hide my tears behind a smiling face. Yes I did smile because of the way you asked. It really made me smile. About being happy, I in fact cried so much last night 🙂 .

I am known for smiling in the worst possible moments as well 🙂 .

But hey, how the heck you know that I am not well and in a hectic situation? You are not sitting in my session are you 🙂 ?

13. bb - December 16, 2009

yup, read that one too. what in the world that could make you hide your tears behind your smiling face for now ?

previous reasons was understandable, here’s few words that i’ve got from every writing of yours : materialistic, selfish reasons, tears, busy, leaving, hidden pains and all of these are only refering to one caused. not mentioning how hard it is for you to live in a suitcase.

not sitting in your session at all, even too faraway i guess. unless you will have an accoustic guitar performance, how to make a good coffee ever, tell the newest movie sneak preview or give a 70 % discount card for buying newest charles n keith shoes. ha ha.

but hey i am too smart or what…see everything from ur tweets… 😀

have some rests if u can, restless soul will always make you unhealthy for whatever reasons. the simplest way is trying to fall in love again as a way to cure the basic wound inside of you. this is only a suggestion from me. i can see that u still manage the anger inside and wont let go.

cheers
blommer

ps : what’s up with the way i ask ? 🙂

Aman Sharma - December 16, 2009

Oh my gosh! Well here comes some genuine praise.You are indeed smart and I shall go one step further and say, you do understand people well as well! I am impressed, really impressed!

What’s up with the way you asked? I don’t know. Some times, its just some small things which make you happy, like a drop of rain falling on your hand for example! In the same way, the way you said, I am curious and curiosity kills, it just brought a smile over my face! That’s all I can say. Some things are not explainable with a proper reasoning and it was just one of those many things I guess 🙂 .

what in the world that could make you hide your tears behind your smiling face for now ?
Wounds can get healed very fast but it takes a long time to get rid of the signs of those wounds. When you go too deep in the sea holding someone’s hand , without knowing swimming and suddenly that person leaves you there , that’s something what did happen.

previous reasons was understandable, here’s few words that i’ve got from every writing of yours : materialistic, selfish reasons, tears, busy, leaving, hidden pains and all of these are only refering to one caused. not mentioning how hard it is for you to live in a suitcase.

Hahaha well, I can make tea. For coffee, we may need to go to some shop. My favorite is Cafe Coffee Day. Starbucks I hate and Tim Hortons, I didn’t get a chance to go yet. About the movie preview, I do write about one or the other at some infrequent timings 🙂 .

Some how, I can’t have rest. I have lost that time I guess which was there for rest. I am trying hard, very hard to get it back but I guess, it will be taking a lot of time before I can have it. About the anger, there is a lot that is there behind that anger! Don’t want it but its not going and it will take some time I believe before it will leave me!

Cheers
Aman….
I didn’t get it. What doesn’t mention that how hard is to live in a suitcase? I couldn’t understand this part what you wrote here!

14. bb - December 17, 2009

hm, i am not really good on writing i guess.

“not mentioning how hard it is for you to live in a suitcase”
i mean it’s like “not asiding the reason of how hard it is for you to live in a suitcase”. this is another reasons that keep you unhappy instead of ur hurt feeling that was caused by a girl frm the past.

hopefully this can answer your question.

“About the anger, there is a lot that is there behind that anger! Don’t want it but its not going and it will take some time I believe before it will leave me! ”

one of my fav quote say :
” to forgive is a beautiful thing. control your emotion, it doesnt have a brain ”

it’s your call then to decide.

have a nice day then. 😀

ps : thank you for giving many praises. but i’m not the one who wrote many poems and other writing stuffs that lead many ppl to read and have a comment on it.

p.s.s : What is the connectivity between go too deep in the sky and not knowing how to swim ? you need to know how to swim if the person that u hold is taking you to fly above the sea and suddenly leave u there. ha ha ha.

Aman Sharma - December 19, 2009

I was thinking for these days what to reply. Yes, I have read that quote myself as well and forgiving someone is a much bigger thing to do than hurting him and I do agree to it as well. But, there is small thing that some times, some things are not just so small that one can forgive someone. Some things go and hurt you to that extent that its not just easy to forgive and forget them. And in those times, if the person who did this, he is not even ready to accept that he is wrong , the whole idea of forgiving him becomes void as you can forgive someone who confesses his guilts, not someone who says I have done nothing and I don’t need forgiveness. Some times, what’s visible is not the whole thing, there may be a lot more than that which is there!

Sorry about that line, please read ‘sea’ in place of ‘sky’ , I have corrected it.

Cheers
Aman….

15. bb - December 21, 2009

basicly in my opinion, forgiving is just another way for me to heal the misery inside and it’s not always related to someone else who made mistakes to me whether they confess it or not. wouldnt want anyone to take away even a single happiness that comes in life. we should work hard sometimes to make our own hapiness and be grateful about it.

hmm, u might be right. what’s visible is not the whole thing, there may be a lot more than that which is there. i really can see there’s a small thing that apparently not so small at all there.

well after all, we are look like we feel. 🙂

owh, btw thanks for the correction.

have a nice day. cheers.


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