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Love, Some Folds Unfolded III…. November 25, 2006

Posted by Aman.... in Random Stuff.
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This is not  from me but I found it somewhere.  I loved each and every word of this article.  If you ask me in context from this that ever I was “in” love or I was “loving” someone, I can say with full confidence that I was loving that person but Love hurts at times too.Why?I shall try to say in an upcoming post.  Read this article and if you are “in” love or yet to have taste it, make it sure, you walk on this path if you have courage in your heart and you can make and fulfill a commitment for your love.  Loving someone for sometime and than leaving him/her when the time is not right, when you think you would be in trouble coz of this, when you think you are bored from that person or that person has not given you anything in return, its not love.  It wont hurt you breaking someone’s heart but the other person will be crushed and believe me, its not easy to find someone who loves you without asking anything in return, without making complaints and lets you go on your wish!If you just like to do what you like,don’t come on the path of love.  Never say to your love one that you have nothing to do with him/her when he/she has given you everything.  It hurts beyond words can express!Remember its very easy to make a relation, its more easy to break it but it takes a lifetime to maintain it.  Enjoy the article:
A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.
Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. That’s the reward and that’s the risk. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved.
Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have. And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work — because it’s about keeping a relationship.
Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else’s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop.
Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better.
The power of true love to a person is undeniable.
A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments from each other anyway? It’s like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.
The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.
“Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break.”
Every day everywhere, people fall in love … but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”… but more often than not, the truth is just — I am IN love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you.
This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairy tale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship…where both were only IN love with each other.
But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.
Let your heart guide you.
May you be blessed on your soul-searching journey for your soul mate.
Isn’t it so true?

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1. kavita kaushal - November 25, 2006

our partner if he/she wants to be a soulmate then must know wt do v feel..without saying nything..bcoz silence speaks, aman..the one who can read it is needed.. if not he/she is the partner..only… now that depend upon u..it may b my personal thought only..nd one thing more one shud make her/his partner so easy going, so secured, so confident that he/she could b able to say everything..bcoz u can understand him/her…each word and even if not said in words..no horror…yes it needs time to develop…bt the feel from the in is needed…only time can do something…
ek gal das…is the physical presence is necessary for luv..”je door hovo na dekh sako ta ki pyar jhootha ho janda hai..ki dil di awaz kuch nahi hundi..kise nu nahi sundi.”..committment ki hai..sab de against ja ke apna pyar nibhana sab nu taqlif de ke pyar nu pa lena..shayad kite apne pyar nu taqlif de ke vi..is this committment…or to be always there for ur luv..always stand by ur luv..whether there is nybdy with her/him..is this not the part of committment….love means being a part..”pyar ta oh hai ke banda mar vi jave ta apna dil dhadkda chad ke jave kise hor de dil de andar..hamesha jinda rahe apne pyar naal” bas i know this..
wow i was talking about soulmate..and in the end u hav written about soulmate..actualy i started writing comment without reading the full post..means there is only one end..right…
“jis phasane ko anjaam tak le jaya na ja sake..usey khoobsurat mod par chod dena acha hai”
at least the memories must be good..bilkul tuhade andar baithey insaan nu garmi vich thandi hawa de jhoke di tarah..te sardi vich us chade suraj di garmi di tarah lage” tooooooo long comment na..ha ha take care

2. Aman Sharma - November 25, 2006

Yes that’s what I say kavita that Love is not that you must be together against all odds,yes try for it but make it sure that you dont hurt that person.It hurts a lot to face all this from your love that she/he has nothing to do with you anymore just like now there is no business and the next person wants to be free.Committment is when you are there for the person whether you say to him/her that you love him/her or not but both of you know that it will be there.Love is forgiving your loved one’s biggest mistakes too and many doesnt understand it and take it as weakness of other person.May be that’s the way it is.Yes,memories must be good and not painful.It takes alot to fall in love but for some,its just a matter of play for some time.
Aman….

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